Christmas full of warmth - how to celebrate Christmas when a child is sick?

The role of tradition in difficult times

Traditions are extremely important, especially when everyday life changes dramatically. Children need a sense that, despite their illness, their world has not completely changed. Keeping Christmas rituals, even in a simplified form, allows them to feel stability and normalcy. Decorating the Christmas tree, the smell of gingerbread or Christmas songs can be a simple but effective way to introduce an atmosphere that brings joy and a sense of security. These small, familiar elements are a reminder that there are still things that remain the same, regardless of circumstances. Children, even those struggling with serious illnesses, are still first and foremost children and their emotional needs remain the same as those of their healthy peers. In the face of illness, it is important to maintain elements of normalcy that give them a sense of security and stability. Christmas is a special moment - a time full of joy, warmth and magic that allows the child to get away from the daily reality filled with the hardships of treatment. It's not only an opportunity to experience the joy of presents or decorating the Christmas tree together, but also an opportunity to build moments of happiness that remain in the memory for a long time," explains Joanna Pruban, M.D., psycho-oncologist at the Mother and Child Institute.

Christmas as a time of rest and relationship building

The holidays are a unique opportunity to focus on what is most important in life - closeness and time together. For a family whose life is in a rhythm of illness, they can be a moment of respite and a chance to strengthen bonds. Watching Christmas movies together, preparing ornaments or reading Christmas stories doesn't require much effort, but it builds memories and lasting family relationships. - Christmas rituals serve a therapeutic function, helping the child to feel loved and supported, and the family to strengthen ties and find a moment of respite. What's more, the little ones, even in the face of severe illnesses, often show remarkable mental resilience and optimism that can inspire parents. That's why it's so important to allow them to participate in the holiday celebrations with full commitment during this special time, giving them space to experience joy. Such moments build their mental strength and belief that they are surrounded by love and care despite their illness, and this is crucial to their overall well-being, " emphasizes Joanna Pruban, M.D., of the Institute of

How to adapt holidays to the needs of a sick child

Celebrating the holidays in the face of illness requires flexibility and adaptation to the child's capabilities. There aren't always the time and strength to organize an hours-long Christmas Eve or prepare all the traditional dishes. A few symbolic gestures, such as cooking a few favorite dishes or decorating the Christmas tree, are enough. It's important that the child can participate in these activities on his or her own terms, depending on his or her mood. Even the simplest gestures, such as lighting the lights together or singing Christmas carols, can bring a little magic and joy to everyday life.

Christmas in the hospital - how to create a substitute for home

Unfortunately, sometimes illness prevents a child from going home for Christmas. Spending that time in the hospital is a challenge, but even there the spirit of Christmas can be found. Small gestures such as a small Christmas tree in the room, Christmas lights or carols in the background can bring a festive atmosphere. Shared moments with family, regardless of location, help build a sense of closeness and normalcy. - Christmas on the ward, despite the hardships of illness, can be full of joy and magic. We always try to create a substitute for a festive atmosphere for children, which allows them to feel special, even though they can't spend this time at home. We decorate a Christmas tree, organize a small treat, and the children receive gifts from friendly foundations. Santa Claus often visits us as well, which brings smiles not only to the children's faces, but also to their families. This festive mood is shared by everyone - both the young patients and the medical staff, who do their best to make the holidays joyful for the children despite their illness, adds Prof. Anna Raciborska, Christmas, even in difficult circumstances, remains a time of closeness, love and hope. A child's illness does not have to take away the magic of Christmas - small gestures, shared moments and a little imagination are enough to create a special atmosphere. Simple traditions, such as decorating the Christmas tree and singing carols, provide a sense of normalcy for young patients. Christmas reminds us that the most important thing in life is to be together, to support each other and to share moments that give strength to face the disease.

Source: IMiD